Many of us under the same circumstances would be unable to make that emotional shift. Even when faced with minor slights—like a husband forgetting our birthday or a friend not inviting us to a ...

over and over? These cases challenge the authenticity of our faith. Another real-life example concerns those who hurt us deeply and do not seek our forgiveness. People often carry the heavy burden of ...

Laurie and Jamie sat in my office a few months ago, locked in an impasse all too common in couples therapy. The previous week, Laurie discovered that Jamie had done the seemingly unforgivable: He had ...