This is what it sounds like when a manipulator uses “weaponized calmness” to punish you until you end up apologizing for the pain they caused 💔🧠 • “I’m calm. You’re the one getting worked up.” • “See? This is why we can’t talk. Look at your tone.” • “I’m not even raising my voice. You’re overreacting again.” They stay calm on purpose, not because they’re mature, but because staying calm lets them paint you as the problem. They turn your natural emotional response into “proof” that you’re unsta