Vanessa Marin | Couples Therapist on Instagram: "If your husband has stopped initiating, it’s usually not because he doesn’t want you. It’s because he’s tired of getting rejected. We hear this from men *all the time…* “I got so many no’s that I just stopped.” Here’s the thing — initiating takes a lot of vulnerability. When one partner is always putting themselves out there *and* absorbing all the rejection, it really starts to hurt. So eventually they protect themselves by pulling back. They may